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Punishments or Rewards

Discipline without Stress
This book shows how internal motivation is far more powerful and effective than are punishments or rewards.

Classroom Management

Rules

Rules are meant to control, not to inspire.

Rules are necessary in games. Between people, however, rules result in adversarial relationships because rules require enforcement. In addition, rules are often stated in negative terms and imply an imposed consequence if not followed.

Rules place the teacher in the position of the enforcer, a cop, wearing a blue uniform with copper buttons—rather than that of a teacher, coach, mentor, facilitator of learning, or educator.

Enforcing rules often results in power struggles that rarely result in win-win situations or good relationships. In fact, they often result in reluctance, resistance, resentment, rebellion, and even retaliation.

Upon analysis, you will see that rules are either procedures or expectations. Rather than relying on rules, therefore, you will be much more effective if you teach procedures, which is the essence of  good classroom management.

Rules are "left-hemisphere" oriented. They work with people who are orderly and structured. "Right-hemisphere" dominant students act randomly and spontaneously. Teaching procedures--rather than relying on rules--is significantly more effective with this type of student.  See Impulse Management.

Rules aim at obedience, but obedience does not create desire.

Also, communicate by painting pictures of what you WANT, not what you don't want. If you tell a person what you do not want, the person immediately visualizes the opposite because the brain visualizes; it does not picture text or words.

Therefore, instead of posting "Rules" that focus on obedience, consider posting "Responsibilities" that empower and elevate.

Responsibilities
  HAVE MY MATERIALS
  BE WHERE I BELONG
  FOLLOW DIRECTIONS

  DO MY ASSIGNMENTS
 
BE KIND TO OTHERS

 
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