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Discipline without Stress Punnishment or Rewards
 

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Discipline without Stress®
Punishments or Rewards

Discipline without Stress
This book shows how internal motivation is far more powerful and effective than are punishments or rewards.
"Collaboration is more effective than domination"

Dr. Marvin Marshall

PROMOTING RESPONSIBILITY & LEARNING ARCHIVES

NUMBER DATE SPECIAL HIGHLIGHTS
105. Apr'10 #2 Additional hierarchy examples
#3 Intrinsic vs. extrinsic motivation
#7 Autonomous Behavior
104. Mar'10 #5 Test first, study later
#6 Carrots and sticks
#7 The hierarchy and motivation
103. Feb'10 #2 Assumption and behaviorism
#7 An interview with me
#8 Students want to use DWS at home
102. Jan'10 #2 Positivity and health
#5 Home assignments and choice
#7 Procedures and impulse control
101. Dec'09 #1 Punishments and rewards
#2 Rights and responsibility
#4 Moodiness
100. Nov'09 #4 5 Tips for getting along
#7 Acknowledging responsible behavior
#8 External motivation doesn't transfer
99. Oct'09 #2 Using the book drawings
#6 Asking reflective questions
#7 Dealing with a chatty class
98. Sep'09 #3 Semantics: rules vs. procedures
#6 Imposing vs. eliciting values
#7 Comparing an old approach with DWS
97. Aug'09 #4 The "Golden Rule" of relationships
#6 Youngsters using foul language
#7 Repairing a broken heart
96. July'09 #4 The "Talking Stick"
#5 A story about collaboration
#6 An experience with 3rd graders
95. June'09 #2 How to promote responsibility
#3 Focus on behaviors vs. goals
#5 The “Dot”
94. May'09 #3 Keeping the brain healthy
#4 Question that changed the world
#5 The serious need for play
93. Apr'09 #3 Working with challenging students
#4 Clarity vs. influencing
#5 Outstanding book for teachers
92. Mar'09 #1 Stress and Control
#2 Obedience vs. desire / Level C vs. Level D
#6
The effectiveness of eliciting
91. Feb'09 #2 "Someday when you are a man"
#3 Internal vs. external motivation
#6
Awareness of the 4 levels and 3 practices
90. Jan'09 #4 Help people feel important
#5 Keys to success by Malcolm Gladwell
#6
Suggestions for traveling teachers
89. Dec'08 #2 Positive Behavior Support
#6 Help for substitute teachers
#7
DWS helps at home
88. Nov'08 #2 Reflection
#3 "Working with challenging students
#5
Jigsaw classrooms
87. Oct'08 #3 Switchtasking
#6 Implementing the teaching model
#8 Oppositional defiant behavior
86. Sep'08 #2 Consistency in consequences
#4 Handling being interrupted
#6 Differences between Levels C & D
85. Aug'08 #2 Service above self
#5 PBS-Another ineffective approach
#7 Reflective questions
84. July'08 #2 Focusing on the future
#4 Pain from people or things
#6 Feelings from Level D
83. June'08 #1 10 Counterproductive practices
#3 Smile exercise
#5 Normative testing
82. May'08 #2 Substitute teachers
#3 Tag Questions
#6 Negative effects of BPIS
81. Apr'08 #2 How NOT to promote responsibility
#3 The Japanese approach to teaching
#6 When to implement the program
80. Mar'08 #1 What Great Teachers Do
#2 Imposing vs. Eliciting
#3 Risk-Taking Questions
79. Feb'08 #1 Classroom management
#5 Understanding Boys
#6 Review with examples of DW
78. Jan'08 #1 Likeability
#3 The art of influence
#5 Special education resources
77. Dec'07 #2 Working with a very difficult student
#3 How our thinking controls how we feel
#5 How educational visions are counter-productive
76. Nov'07 #3 Thumbs up vs. thumbs down behaviors
#5 Two questions all students ask
#6 How a policeman uses the levels
75. Oct'07 #1 Teacher Preparation
#3 Acknowledging Level D
#6 Understanding Level D
74. Sep'07 #2 It's YOUR job to make me behave
#3 Assumptions and its problems
#5 Rewards, salary, and incentives
73. Aug'07 #3 Substituting numbers for vocabulary
#5 Boredom, teaching, and learning
#6 ABCD posters of trash
72. July'07 #2 Teen-age brain development
#5 The value of positive images
#6 Rewards/compensation/competition
71. June'07 #2 A school that doesn't use rewards
#3 Compartmentalize negative experiences
#5 Moving from "Why?" to "Will this be on the test?"
70. May'07 #1 Handouts for presentations
#3 Learned helplessness
#6 Promoting internal motivation
69. Apr'07 #3 How the face communicates self-talk
#5 Key elements of successful teaching
#7 Transferring motivation
68. Mar'07 #1 Emotion takes precedence over cognition
#3 A simple but significant question
#4 A Story: What will he other person remember?
67. Feb'07 #2 Getting past gravitation to form new habits
#3 Listen to the entire story
#6 Dealing with Positive Behavior Support
66. Jan'07 #2 Empty the head of old information to accept new knowledge
#4 You cannot not communicate
#5 Boys dislike showing weakness
65. Dec'06 #2 How a 15-year-old imposed his own consequences
#3 Put people ahead of ideas
#6 Mind-body connection and Norman Cousins
64. Nov'06 #2 Use of Guided Choices of RRS
#3 A reflective question to actuate change in an older person
#5 Differentiating Instruction
63. Oct'06 #3 Happiness and satisfaction
#5 Multitasking splits the brain’s focus
#6 In persuasion, emotion takes precedence over cognition
62. Sep'06 #1 Myth of the teen-age brain
#2 Emotion/Cognition/Bullying
#3 State what you want, not what you don't
61. Aug'06 #4 Listening is a powerful statement
#5 Teaching reading to older students
#6 Parent essays and student forms
60. July'06 #1 Character Education Comments
#4 Caring and listening
#6 Dealing with difficult students
59. June'06 #1 Two Characteristics of "Discipline without Stress"
#3 Mindset and walking a plank
#5 Advice to teaches of alternative high school students
58. May'06 #3 Connecting and using "time out"
#4 Apologizing and perfectionism
#5 "Why" as a "stopper" vs. as a "motivator"
57. Apr'06 #1 "What would Marvin Marshall do?"
#2 Using procedures to replace punishments
#6 Feeling uncomfortable when trying something different
56. Mar'06 #1 Sharpen the saw
#3 What price will I be paying?
#5 Repeatedly asking, "Why?"
55. Feb'06 #1 Reasons for name change
#3 Removing barriers
#5 Essence of Jean Piaget
54. Jan'06 #2 Self-Esteem
#5 Emotions and learning
#6 Explaining Anarchy - Level A
53. Dec'05 #1 Attributes of the Raise Responsibility System
#2 Disciplining by questions
#3 Criticism
52. Nov'05 #3 Your facial expression communicates your emotion
#4 The most fundamental classification
#5 Using collaboration and sharing vs. awarding
51. Oct'05 #3 How to influence others
#5 An example of influencing a youngster
#6 A hierarchy for setting an alarm clock
50. Sep'05 #2 If you knew what to do . . . .
#5 20th vs. 21st century parental advice
#6 Choices & Reflective Questions
49. Aug'05 #2 An American Tale
#4 Forgiveness
#5 Procedures
48. July'05

#1 W. Edwards Deming's "Red Bead Experiment"
#2 Using detention
#6 Technical question about the RRSystem

47. June'05 #2 Using acknowledgments as motivators
#3 Practicing incantations to help develop a new habit
#6 Summary of approaches regarding discipline and learning
46. May'05 #2 Analogies of physical development to social development
#4 Using a Pyrex glass shield against negativity
#6 The reasons that A, B, C, and D are used in the RRSystem
45. Apr'05 #3 More about the kaizen way (taking small steps)
#5 Motivating students
#6 Important questions - Implementing the RRSystem
44. Mar'05 #2 Take small steps instead of large leaps
#3 Reject rejection
#5 Applying the gate test
43. Feb'05 #1 Understanding third culture kids
#5 Using various hierarchies to promote learning
#6 Reducing bullying
42. Jan'05 #1 Reducing your stress with teenagers
#4 Naming a mistake to reduce emotional hard feelings
#6 Four steps in effective teaching
41. Dec'04 #3 Reducing negative thoughts
#5 Doing homework (home assignments)
#6 Reducing noise levels
40. Nov'04 #2 A question to increase effectiveness
#3 Interview to improve relationships
#5 Even youngsters can use the RRSystem
39. Oct'04 #2 A phrase to promote expectations
#3 Giving three options
#5 Think "elicit "--rather than "impose"
38. Sep'04 #2 Making decisions for others
#4 Engaging the heart as well as the head
#5 Advanced concepts of the RRSystem
37. Aug'04 #2 Changing behavior immediately
#5 The Japanese model of teaching and learning
#6 Use of the RRSystem for counselors and principals
36. July'04 #4 How to say No!" without saying "No!"
#5 How our mental images effect our behaviors
#6 Truths of the RRSystem
35. June'04 #1 Teaching for the 21st century
#2 Using noncoercion with a volatile teenager
#5 Effort becomes a reward, not just a way to a reward
34. May'04 #3 If I were a student, would I want me as a teacher?
#5 Three foundations for brain-compatible learning
#6 Working with "hard kids"
33. Apr'04 #2 The Guy in the Glass
#5 Interview your students
#6 Management vs. discipline; punishment vs. discipline
32. Mar'04 #2 Using the 3 principles for personal development
#4 Dismissing people who disappoint you
#5 RRS: Differences between levels C & D
31. Feb'04 #2 The mutuality of responsibility
#5 Traditionalist or progressive?
#6 Simple does not mean easy
30. Jan'04 #2 Influencing a four-year-old
#5 Work vs. effort in learning
#6 Planting seeds
29. Dec'03 #3 Persistence
#5 Discipline vs. punishment
#6 Difficulty with a parent
28. Nov'03 #3 Positive people and expectations
#4
Giving your opinion
#6
Teaching voice volume to students
27. Oct'03 #1 PARENTING without STRESS
#3 The Two-Minute Rule
#6 Using the word "Anarchy" with the young
26. Sep'03 #2 Golden Rules for Living
#3 Right/wrong vs. more or less effective
#4 Suggestions for giving
25. Aug'03 #1 How Seabiscuit was handled
#3 Three ways to promote your ideas
#4 The cause of adolescent misbehavior
24. July'03 #2 Thinking opportunity rather than security
#3 Being right or being happy
#5 Explanation for Level C--positive and negative
23. June'03 #2 Living is an art
#5 Problem with son
#6 Students who lie
22. May'03 #2 We have a moral obligation to be happy
#4 Temper and pride
#5 Why change is difficult
21. Apr'03 #3 The greatest two-word tip of all time
#4 Five suggestions for improving relationships
#6 Classroom management issues
20. Mar'03 #1 Emotions and Cognition
#2 Allowances and Chores
#5 Internal motivation and 2-3 year olds
19. Feb'03 #1 New Mailring
#4 Admitting Mistakes
#5 Using "not" instead of "no"
18. Jan'03 #2 Question-framing mobilizes your perceptions.
#4 Seven deadly habits
#6 ODD, ADD, and ADHD
17. Dec '02 #3 Success isn't always about winning
#4 Leave your baggage behind
#6 Dealing with a difficult parent and child
16. Nov'02 #2 How to treat a beggar
#3 Look for the gold
#5 Reducing perfectionism
15. Oct '02 #2 The 15-Minute Rule
#3 Epictetus' 2000 year old lesson
#5 Using the RRSystem
14. Sep '02 #2 What you look for is what you get
#3 The Orangutan Theory
#4 The Hawthorne Effect
13. Aug '02 #3 Being busy is not being successful
#4 Asking for clarification
#6 Controlling the conversation
12. July '02 #2 Hobson's Choice
#3 A story: coercion vs. noncoercion
#5 A parent's problem: student failing classes
11. June '02 #2 Teaching to be victors rather than victims
#3 Bringing sunshine or darkness
#4 The key to improving relationships
10. May '02 #2 Your happiness
#3 Paint positive images
#4 Attentive listening
9. Apr '02 #1 The faulty assumption of behaviorism
#2 John Glenn - giving, rather than receiving
#3 A Lou Holtz story
8. Mar '02 #1 What I learned in kindergarten
#3 Being unafraid of failure
#4 Using your partner's differences to advantage
7. Feb '02 #2 Very specific procedures
#3 Caring
#4 Taming a wild mustang in 30 minutes
6. Jan '02 #1 How the RRSystem was developed
#3 Thinking of what to say vs. thinking of what to ask
#4 The biggest enemy
5. Dec '01 #1 Enriching the brain
#3 Accentuating the positive
#5 Anarchy looses its attractiveness when made personal
4. Nov '01 #2 Children and Adults with "Attention Deficit Disorder"
#3 The boy who grounded himself
#4 Preventing emotional hijacking
3. Oct '01 #2 Using precise language
#3 Continual improvement
#4 Training in a deficit model
2. Sep '01 #2 Language and behavior
#3 Comfort and behavior
#4 The likability factor
1. Aug '01 #1 Kids and power
#3 The effectiveness of telling
#5 Learning from differences
 
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