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Discipline without Stress
This book shows how internal motivation is far more powerful and effective than are punishments or rewards.
"Collaboration is more effective than domination"

Dr. Marvin Marshall

THE RAISE RESPONSIBILITY SYSTEM
PART III of the Discipline Without Stress Teaching Model

When I first came upon the system, it was the concept of motivation featured in the hierarchy that initially grabbed my attention. The hierarchy was the first time that I had ever seen anyone explain that high level behaviour is actually all about personal motivation. The contrast between the higher levels points this out perfectly. To me, the hierarchy is absolutely brilliant, especially because of its simplicity. When something is simple enough that even children can understand it and yet so striking that many adults are stopped in their tracks by it, it's got to be something worthwhile!
Kerry Weisner, British Columbia, Canada

The foundational step of the system is TEACHING a hierarchy BEFORE problems occur.
It is the EFFECT of the hierarchy—how people grow—that makes teaching it so valuable.

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ather than focusing on discipline, think of the hierarchy as an OPPORTUNITY for young people to have a rubric or reference for making decisions in life.

The Hierarchy of Social Development

The hierarchy has four levels (concepts).
As with any hierarchy, the most advanced or highest level is placed at the top.

After the concepts have been taught, reference is made only to the LETTER. For example, the highest level is referred to as LEVEL D.

LEVEL D - Democracy (highest level)
Develops self-discipline
Demonstrates initiative
Displays responsibility
Does good because it is the right thing to do
The motivation is INTERNAL.

On this level, a person's MOTIVATION is INternal. The concept of democracy is used because democracy and responsibility are inseparable. The goal is to aim at this level.

LEVEL C - Cooperation/Conformity
Considerate
Cooperates
Complies
Conforms
The motivation is EXTERNAL.

This level is characterized by consideration and complying with requests, but the MOTIVATION is EXternal. Action at this level is often prompted by MOTIVATION to please others, receive a reward, or to avoid a negative consequence. Most of us live our lives at this level. A danger exists at this level, however, when the young conform and comply to peer influence that may not be in society's or in the person's best interests.

The difference between the two is in the MOTIVATION, rather than in the behavior. For example, if a teacher asks a student to pick up trash and dispose of it, and the student does, that demonstrates Level C. If, however, the students see the trash and takes the initiative to dispose of it WITHOUT THE TEACHER'S FIRST ASKING, that demonstrates Level D motivation. The BEHAVIOR is often the same. The difference is in the MOTIVATION.

These two higher levels of MOTIVATION are BOTH acceptable.

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The two lower levels of BEHAVIOR are NOT acceptable.

LEVEL B - Bullying/Bossing
Bosses others
Bothers others
Bullies others
Breaks laws and makes own standards
Must be bossed to behave

This level is characterized by a lack of impulse control, a lack of consideration for others, and by displaying inappropriate behaviors. When behaving at this level the young are sending the message, "Control us because we are not capable of controlling ourselves."
See
Reducing Bullying.

LEVEL A - Anarchy (lowest level)
Absence of order
Aimless and chaotic
Absence of government
Anarchy is the fundamental enemy of civilization.

This level is characterized by chaos, being out of control, unsafe.

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To understand how the hierarchy is designed to be used, download the pdf: SIGNIFICANT POINTS.

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Sample hierarchies for primary, upper elementary, and middle/high school levels are available at Levels of Development.pdf.

The levels (concepts) can be taught with examples from home, from school, and from the community—as well as with stories and events from around the world. Eliciting examples for each level increases understanding and makes the concepts meaningful and personal. Read how the hierarchy was taught by one teacher at
 
A Butterfly Analogy.

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The following link will be of great assistance in correcting inappropriate behavior:
Impulse Management

POSTERS of the hierarchy are available at posters.
CARDS of the hierarchy are available at
cards.

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See Using the Hierarchy to Promote Learning.

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The following site will shorten the learning curve for those new to the Discipline Without Stress® Teaching Model: A Quick Start.

 
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